Hey Rony,
We'd love to conduct our experiments on something like 6600 or P900 but as we dont have any sponserer and we also lack experience so I suppose 3310 is ideal to start with. As for downloading ringtones and games through IRDA you can visit many free sites providing images, games and tones etc and upload to your cell via IRDA or bluetooth. For application that shrinks video to fit mobile resolution you can use Nokia PC Suite -> Multi Media Player. Open video file in that software and click on File->Save as and select your preferences rest the software will convert it to 3GP format and your desired resolution. Your suggestion of approaching Chinese or Koreans is considerable but we first need to meet each other (people interested in this project) and discuss the possibilities and we can later move ahead.
Regards,
Latesh.